Dear Girls,

I have an advice. Up to you girls to take it or not. To agree with me or not. But I'm positive it works.

Whenever someone you love did something for you, either upon request or he himself willing to do it, always show your gratitude. Say it loud and clear. Even the littlest thing.

"thank you for spending your time and having lunch with me. i'm very happy and you have made my day eventhough it is just for awhile" (pasti lah conversation nie dlm bahasa melayu. takde maknanye tiba2 nak speaking kan)

Do this after you've met and send a message to him afterward. He will reply, honored with himself, and will love you even more for being grateful of what he did.

In return, he will also be grateful of what you've done to him as well. You will find one day, he will send you a thank you note by himself. You have changed him to a better man. Being grateful that is.

Put aside your ego and be honest with him.

Sincerely,
a girl who just had lunch wit her bf who came all the way to her office to meet her and eat with her and when she went back to work, she recieved a message from the bf saying thank you for having lunch with him and making him happy and this girl is happy.